My best friend is in from Israel, and I get to see her tonight. SQUEEEEEEEEEE!
Sorry for the screaming, but I haven't seen Rachel since she and her family moved there a little over a year ago. Her niece is getting married, and I'm spending Shabbos with them. I'm not normally Shabbos observant, but the one before a wedding is a special celebration for the bride. Rach asked if I could bring a few small kids toys with me for a game. Everyone sticks their hand in a bag, pulls out an item, and has to bestow a blessing upon the couple that incorporates the item. A fun idea, especially if the people involved have a wicked sense of humor when selecting the items. The non-kosher toy pig should be a riot.
This morning before I left for work, I went to scope out a few toys. To say that my daughter is not a morning person would be a gross understatement, and finding anything in her room on my own would require a map and a shovel, minimum. I took one look at Cady faceplanting on the couch, and moved on to Brandon's room. Sleepy Cady is fun for snuggling and planting smoochies on; not so much fun for getting intelligent information out of.
On to Brandon's room.
"Brandon, can I borrow a few of your toys?"
"What for?"
"Well, I'm spending tonight with Auntie Rachel, and we want to play a game with a few of them. Is that OK?"
"Yes."
I start to look at his toy bins. Brandon joins me, sees that I'm looking at his plastic animals, and starts to hand me one or two. It's then that he takes my breath away.
"You should take some of my stuffed animals. Here, take Norn, and...."
I will grant that Brandon has enough stuffed animals to fill out a section in Toys R' Us. He is, after all, mine, and at 40 years old I still think there's no such thing as too many stuffed animals. However, his stuffed animals are his most prized possessions, his very best friends, the subjects of the fantastic creative stories that he loves to build in his head. Perhaps more importantly, they are his comfort.
What he is handing me is not so much toys as his trust. He is sharing what he loves most, and having faith that I will care for them and return them.
I may never hear him say "I love you" without saying it first, but I will never forget that today he showed me, loudly and clearly.